Ten Reasons Why He’s not the man for you.

By: Ezy Odimuko

Ten Reasons Why He’s not the man for you.

Hey young ladies out there, if you are single and searching, here are a few thoughts to encourage you to hold unto God and patiently wait for the right guy to come your way. Remember, God has good plans for you!
“For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the LORD, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope.” ‭‭Jeremiah‬ ‭29:11‬ ‭NKJV‬‬
I know it’s not easy waiting but don’t hasten into a marriage that you will regret later. Your life could depend on it. Here are a few reasons why he’s not the man for you.

1. When you have to lie to yourself and others to cover for him.
2. When he tells you, you are not good enough, but that he’s merely doing you a favour marrying you.
3. When he follows you everywhere, monitors you, has people watching you, and you often get into fights over his distrust of you.
4. When he always has a story about why things are a certain way. Your gut tells you differently, but he’s always got a story.
5. When everything he does is so different from what he professes to believe. But he tells you he did it just to see what you would say/ do.
6. When telling the truth is just plain difficult for him.
7. When he tells you he wants you but that his mother does not like you.
8. When you are confused about what he does for a living and cannot easily explain it to others.
9. When every conversation has to revolve around him and you have to continually feed his ego.
10. When dependability and reliability are not his strengths and there’s always a reason why he cannot keep commitments.
A word is enough for the wise.


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